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The Death of Common Sense | Part 1: We've Lost Our Minds
•Rick Taylar
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Injecting diabetes drugs to lose weight. Surviving on 800 calories. Wrapping ourselves in plastic. Fasting for days and calling it a "protocol."
When did this become normal?
In this episode, I'm asking the question nobody wants to ask anymore: Does any of this actually make sense?
The answer is no. And that's not an accident.
The diet industry didn't just fail us. It broke us. It manufactured our desperation, and then sold us increasingly extreme "solutions" that were never designed to work long-term. They were designed to keep us coming back.
Today, we start at the beginning. How we got here. Why we stopped trusting ourselves. And what it's going to take to reclaim the common sense that was stolen from us.
In this episode:
The absurdity we've normalized in the name of "health"
How desperation replaces wisdom and why the diet industry counts on it
The difference between "Does this make sense?" and "Will this finally work?"
Why every failure pushed you further from your own judgment
The rigged game and how to stop playing
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We've lost our minds. Not figuratively, literally. Somewhere in the last two decades, we collectively decided that injecting ourselves with diabetes medication, surviving on 800 calories, and wrapping our midsections in plastic wrap qualifies as taking control of our health. I need you to hear that again. We are injecting pharmaceutical compounds, drugs designed for diabetics, into our bodies because we're afraid of carbs. We're swallowing pills that make our hearts race and our hands shake, and we're calling it metabolic support. We're fasting for days at a time and calling starvation a protocol. And nobody's asking the obvious question anymore. Does this actually make sense? I've been thinking about this a lot lately. How do we get here? How did intelligent, capable, successful people, people who would never accept this kind of nonsense in any other area of their lives, end up doing things to their bodies that their grandparents would have called insane? And I think I know the answer. The diet industry broke us. Forty years of eat less, move more didn't make us thinner, it made us desperate. And here's what happens when you make someone desperate. They stop thinking clearly. They stop asking questions. They stop trusting their own judgment. Desperate people reach for extreme solutions because the last thing didn't work, and the thing before that didn't work, and the thing before that didn't work. So obviously, obviously, the answer must be something more, something harder, something we haven't tried yet. And so the bar keeps moving. What was considered extreme ten years ago is now mainstream. What was dangerous is now worth a shot. What would have made headlines in the 1990s is now just Tuesday. Think about it. Twenty years ago, if you told someone you were injecting yourself with a weekly shot to suppress your appetite, they would have been alarmed. They would have asked questions. They would have wondered if you were okay. Now, now people share their injection schedules on social media. They compare dosages, they celebrate shot day like it's a milestone. Twenty years ago, if you told someone you hadn't eaten solid food in five days, they would have called that an eating disorder. They would have been concerned for your health. Now, now it's a therapeutic fast, it's autophagy, it's metabolic optimization. The behavior didn't change, the language did. We got better at packaging insanity as science. And somewhere in all that repackaging, we lost something important. We lost our common sense. That little voice that says, wait a minute, this doesn't seem right. This doesn't seem sustainable. This doesn't seem like something a healthy person would do. That voice got quieter and quieter until most of us can't hear it at all anymore. I want to tell you when I noticed this in myself. I remember standing in a supplement store. This was years ago when I was still trapped in the cycle, staring at a wall of fat burners, bottles with flames on them, words like incinerate and shred and thermogenic blast. And part of me knew this was ridiculous. Part of me knew that no pill was going to fix what was actually wrong. Part of me could hear that faint voice saying, This isn't it. This isn't the answer. You know this. But I bought them anyway. Because I was desperate, because I had tried so many things and failed so many times that I had stopped trusting my own judgment. I figured my judgment was the problem. My instincts were broken. My common sense had clearly failed me. Otherwise I wouldn't be in this situation, right? So I ignored the voice, I bought the pills, and when those didn't work, I tried something else. Something stricter, something harder, something more extreme. That's the trap. That's how it works. Every failure pushes you further from your own wisdom. Every disappointment makes you trust yourself a little less until eventually you're not even asking, does this make sense anymore? You're just asking, will this finally work? And those are very different questions. Does this make sense is a question rooted in wisdom. It requires you to step back, to evaluate, to trust your own judgment about what's reasonable and sustainable. Will this finally work? Is a question rooted in desperation. It doesn't care about wisdom. It doesn't care about sustainability. It just wants the pain to stop. It'll try anything. The diet industry figured this out a long time ago. They realized that desperate people don't ask hard questions. Desperate people don't demand evidence. Desperate people just reach for the next thing and pay for it. So they designed a system that manufactures desperation. Give them advice that sounds logical, but doesn't work long term. Eat less, move more. Simple math, right? But when it fails, when the biology rebels, when the weight comes back, when the willpower runs out, don't blame the method. Blame them. Tell them they didn't try hard enough. Tell them they didn't want it bad enough. Tell them they need to be more disciplined. And then sell them the next thing. The stricter plan, the more rigid protocol, the more extreme intervention. Failure becomes proof that you need to try harder, that you need to buy more, that you need to escalate. It's brilliant, really, in a dark way. The system creates the desperation and then profits from it over and over again. And here we are, a quarter trillion dollar industry built on one simple truth. Desperate people will try almost anything. Inject themselves with drugs designed for a different condition? Sure. Eat less than a toddler needs to function? Why not? Wrap themselves in plastic and sweat out toxins? Absolutely. Stand on a vibrating plate, hoping the shaking will somehow melt fat makes total sense. None of it makes sense. That's the point. Common sense left the building a long time ago, and we didn't even notice it go because we were too busy counting calories, tracking macros, measuring ketones, and desperately searching for the next thing that might finally work. Here's what I want you to take from today's episode. The problem isn't that you lack discipline. The problem isn't that you haven't found the right method yet. The problem is that you've been playing a rigged game, and the first rule of that game is to make you stop trusting yourself. The diet industry doesn't want you thinking clearly. They don't want you asking, does this make sense? They want you desperate, confused, and reaching for the next product. So the most radical thing you can do, start asking that question again. Does this make sense? Would a healthy, sane person do this? Is this something I could imagine doing for the rest of my life? If the answer is no, then it doesn't matter how many before and after photos you've seen. It doesn't matter how many influences are promoting it. It doesn't matter how science-backed the marketing claims to be. If it doesn't make sense, it's not the answer. Your common sense isn't broken. It was stolen from you. And it's time to take it back.